tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post5542652371865428798..comments2024-02-21T05:24:24.651-05:00Comments on Jill's World: The Single Girl Files: You can’t tell the boys you want a baby…Jillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11801639163897040531noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-15740286813914141722012-06-28T11:35:16.636-04:002012-06-28T11:35:16.636-04:00I can tell you one thing, I do not envy you single...I can tell you one thing, I do not envy you single girls one little bit! I agree it does appear as if all the good ones are taken but there're not I promise.<br /><br />Your Mr. RIght will come along, probably when you least expect him to. Good luck finding him.<br /><br />Thanks for linking up!Shawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01733703366959400497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-27960936952338283362012-06-27T17:52:01.605-04:002012-06-27T17:52:01.605-04:00I asked Eric how many kids he wanted after we had ...I asked Eric how many kids he wanted after we had been dating about two months- I totally meant in general not for sure with him. Totally freaked him out (he later told me)- but it also got him thinking ;)<br /><br />3 months later we were engaged, 4 months later we we married.Emmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14675419215475635276noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-43079000521740804402012-06-27T01:51:13.878-04:002012-06-27T01:51:13.878-04:00PS my hubs talked babies first. And I was the one ...PS my hubs talked babies first. And I was the one who was freaked out. Your future Mr. may have babies on the brain just as much as you. :-)Mrs. Matchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09306267724811720324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-7256539813464728252012-06-27T01:50:27.708-04:002012-06-27T01:50:27.708-04:00I want you to have that too, so much. Especially #...I want you to have that too, so much. Especially #1, because well, once you have that, like IA said, the rest falls into place. And even if it takes awhile, you'll have that partner by your side, through the ups and downs that come with after "I do". <br />I know this sounds cheesy, but before I signed up for online dating, I made a list. It was about 2 months before I met Match, of all the goals I wanted in my perfect mate. And I'm telling you-he met all of them. It's a fun idea, and you know what, it puts it out there to the universe.Mrs. Matchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09306267724811720324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-22448846922206292262012-06-26T18:33:38.895-04:002012-06-26T18:33:38.895-04:00Oh sweetie...I know it's frustrating. But thin...Oh sweetie...I know it's frustrating. But think of it like this. If you can check off #1 from your list, the other 2 goals fall into place soon after. <br /><br />And yes, boys freak out a little bit if on the 1st few dates, you start talking about having babies. They're so weird. Why can't they share our viewpoint?<br /><br />Stay positive! You'll meet him when you least expect it! I did!Impulsive Addicthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17237017735466455817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-61044003297725466962012-06-26T14:01:19.214-04:002012-06-26T14:01:19.214-04:00It will happen. The first step is having a goal a...It will happen. The first step is having a goal and it seems like you do. I'll send good vibes your way.Stephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09336034641300754484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-72986028345176325072012-06-26T13:53:33.420-04:002012-06-26T13:53:33.420-04:00Oh, right on the nose! Until a month ago, I was in...Oh, right on the nose! Until a month ago, I was in the EXACT same boat. And while I didn't tell boys I wanted babies on the first date, if we became exclusive I did bring it up. If it frightens them away, well then, they aren't the right guy for you. But since holding babies is the best, comfy, peaceful, loving experience ever, and we're hard-wired to consider it (as women), I think it's reasonable to want a hubby/father figure. <br /><br />I never believed the whole "your soulmate is on his way to you, just be patient" stuff- it seemed like a lot of hope and little reality. But that's what happened with me, when I was actively NOT looking for it (literally, on vacation in another state). So....patience, I guess, is the key. You have plenty of baby-making years left in you. For now, hone those mommy skills by spoiling the babies you have access to, and keep your eyes open for the right man in an unexpected situation. <br /><br />Good luck!Beth Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898921671895123053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-76611224538056757472012-06-26T13:33:34.788-04:002012-06-26T13:33:34.788-04:00Oh Jilly! It will happen. Let's find that spid...Oh Jilly! It will happen. Let's find that spider killer first. then the baby.Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16546785350999393723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-40313019776520108122012-06-26T12:30:45.068-04:002012-06-26T12:30:45.068-04:00It will happen. I found mine early, but I had a f...It will happen. I found mine early, but I had a friend who kissed tons of frogs and then she got a new job, started dating a guy at her work and they live in Alaska now. You never know what corner you will turn and find the perfect for you guy.VandyJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02874470026207258769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-72425202744527586222012-06-26T12:30:44.632-04:002012-06-26T12:30:44.632-04:00It will happen. I found mine early, but I had a f...It will happen. I found mine early, but I had a friend who kissed tons of frogs and then she got a new job, started dating a guy at her work and they live in Alaska now. You never know what corner you will turn and find the perfect for you guy.VandyJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02874470026207258769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-35659918002469706562012-06-26T11:50:01.143-04:002012-06-26T11:50:01.143-04:00Become Nanny Fine, move in with a multimillionaire...Become Nanny Fine, move in with a multimillionaire whose repressed b/c he lost his wife, has 3 kids who are practically grown, live with him for 5 years raising those kids, marry him, go on a fabulous honeymoon, get pregnant with twins. Ok I need to stop watching tv :)Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05620304858463524343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-57487239420763755722012-06-26T11:18:59.795-04:002012-06-26T11:18:59.795-04:00This is going to sound so opposite but I honestly ...This is going to sound so opposite but I honestly think there are some guys out there who do want kids. I have several friends who were not freaked out by the idea of kids. The thing is not to tell them up front. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-59473808119868782842012-06-26T11:17:18.476-04:002012-06-26T11:17:18.476-04:00I was you just 9 years ago. And I was getting OLD...I was you just 9 years ago. And I was getting OLD. <br /><br />I prayed my ass off. And wrote in my journal about the man I wanted to meet. I kissed a lot of frogs.....and then one day.<br /><br />BAM! I found him and we got married and had babies. <br /><br />HAVE FAITH.<br /><br />A few days ago I asked on my blog FB page where people met their spouses because my sister is having the same problem you are. I got some good responses.Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11868956367266325927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34275321.post-78860588400184496542012-06-26T11:11:34.674-04:002012-06-26T11:11:34.674-04:00I know when you are single and waiting, it seems l...I know when you are single and waiting, it seems like it will never happen, but I didn't marry until I was 30, so it will happen. Do it right and you'll only have to do it once!Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15906650088996229896noreply@blogger.com